This is the "we’re in this together" version. Both of you answer the same question, one at a time. Don't interrupt - let your spouse finish before you comment or share your own answer.

Steps: Pick any card, and read the question out loud.
Spouse A takes the lead and answers in full—no "yes,” “no,” or “maybe” cop-outs! Spouse B listens intently, absolutely no interruptions. Then, switch it up: Spouse B answers while Spouse A listens.

Pro Tips:

• Sprinkle in comments like, "I can follow your reasoning." (Translation: "I’m totally trying to understand you here.")
• Throw in a heartfelt, "Thank you for sharing that with me." Bonus points for eye contact.
• Remember, it’s not a debate—no point scoring, only connection building.