Ready to mix things up? This version takes the pressure off. You get to pick a question you'd like to hear your spouse answer, and one you'd like to answer yourself. It’s all about curiosity and connection. Double the questions, double the insight.

Steps:

• Spouse A selects two questions: one they’ll answer and one for Spouse B.
• Spouse A answers their question while Spouse B channels their inner Zen master and listens.
• Spouse B answers their question while Spouse A listens like it’s the most riveting podcast ever.
• Then it’s the other spouse’s turn to pick two questions and keep the conversation going.

Pro Tips:

• Be a kind question picker: "I’m curious to hear your thoughts on this because it’s something we haven’t explored much."
• Wrap it up with, "It’s like seeing a new side of you I didn’t know was there." Enjoy that moment of connection.